What the heart wants

Why you discover a connection with someone when he can´t be with you? I dont get it why people are so afraid of love, that doesnt want to risk their heart in the process. It is so unfair that you say me its a thing of one time, because I am so confused and I only want this time to let it out this feelings. You know that we can be the best couple of all , we are soulmates, but you dont have what it takes to love, and you prefer to feel nothing-than feel this connection that is love, this how you feel love. I will wait, i hope is not a lot a time, because you will regret losing the love of your life.